Abortion is perhaps the most emotionally charged and polarizing social issues facing our country. (*some would argue that gay marriage is close behind - but it lacks the history) I attended a session yesterday lead by one of only three providers in Utah that preform abortions. He proposed that there were some universal truths related to abortion in the US:
1) It is legal - of course there are caveats and limitations...but legal nonetheless
2) It is safe - contrary to some propaganda, those who have abortions have no increased incidence of infertility, no damage that prohibits future conceptions and no long-term physical sequelae associated to the termination.
3) It requires a pregnant woman - I suggested this one and when I initially raised this point in the discussion I first said, "abortion requires a woman and a fetus". He responded, "define fetus". Fetus: The unborn offspring from the end of the 8th week after conception (when the major structures have formed) until birth. Up until the eighth week, the developing offspring is called an embryo. With this information I then changed it to, "abortion requires a woman and a group of differentiating cells" to which he clarified further and called it a pregnant woman. Pregnancy: a fertilized egg that has implanted. I conceded.
4) No one ever WANTS one: An abortion that is. Someone argued this, using as an example the women who choose to use abortions as their primary method of birth control. The physician argued that among all the patients that he has treated, even repeat visitors, not one has come to him without heavily weighing her options. He said again, "no one ever wants one".
5) Abortions are common: Of all the developed countries, where do you think that US falls for number of abortions per year? That is right - the US has the number one abortion rate of all developed countries. There are 1.4 MILLION abortions every year in this country. 40% of the world's population live in a country where abortions are legal and I have experienced first hand treating women post-abortion in countries that have not legalized abortions. (believe me, that is a much worse plight) Abortions are common - more common than breast cancer. (*In 2007, an estimated 178,480 new cases of invasive breast cancer were diagnosed among women, as well as an estimated 62,030 additional cases of in situ breast cancer - a pittance compared to abortions)
6)Abortions are PREVENTABLE: This is the point that I found most interesting. This physician that preforms abortions was adamant that more must be done to PREVENT abortions from even having to be done. How? By prevention of unplanned pregnancies. 50% of all pregnancies in the US each year are unplanned. There is a percentage of unplanned pregnancies that can be reasonably, although inconvenient, dealt with, but then there are those which can not. If we more aggresively prevented unwanted pregnancies, such as other developed countries who have a much lower abortion prevalance, perhaps abortions would be rare events rather than "common".
This brings up interesting questions. Without any empirical evidence, in fact strong empirical evidence to suggest otherwise, a large, politically powerful segment of society believe that contraception availability is linked to promiscuity. I think this perhaps exposes why we do not have a "walk for the cure" for abortion...because it is related to sex. 1.4 million vs. 220,000???
Here is my thought, and please weigh in on the matter - promiscuity, in many cultures is judged more heavily upon the woman...and has been throughout time. Pregnancy, unwanted pregnancy such as in a teenage girl, is a sign that she has been having sex. That pregnant belly
sticks out like a scarlet letter. I have heard some either say outloud or with insinuated sentiment, "that baby is her punishment for having sex. She made the choice, she has to deal with the consequences". I won't disagree with consequence, but that runs far deeper than physical manifestations of "sin". Nathaniel Hawthorne captured the hell of secret sin illustrating the suffering of Arthur Dimmesdale despite Hester Prynne bearing the physical "scarlet letter" her whole life.
sticks out like a scarlet letter. I have heard some either say outloud or with insinuated sentiment, "that baby is her punishment for having sex. She made the choice, she has to deal with the consequences". I won't disagree with consequence, but that runs far deeper than physical manifestations of "sin". Nathaniel Hawthorne captured the hell of secret sin illustrating the suffering of Arthur Dimmesdale despite Hester Prynne bearing the physical "scarlet letter" her whole life.So my question is this - why is it that we don't fight to protect women from unwanted pregnancies? Is it because she is a girl having sex and she should have to pay for her sin? HPV is another example - boys are the assymptomatic vector. Girls get the cancer. Why is it that we don't fight to ensure every girl (and boy for that matter) in the country gets the Gardasil vaccine to protect her from cervical cancer? What if boys were getting penile cancer? Would that make a subconcious difference in policy?
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Dana- Good points. I think a big part of the problem is the current abstinence only sex 'education'. It's not much of an education to say that if you don't do something, everything will be ok. It would be like abstinence only medical school: don't let your patients get sick and you won't have any problems. I don't know how many teenagers the legislature has ever met, but if you told me specifically not to do something, I'd have done it by the end of the week. Young people need honest, well informed education about the risks and prevention of pregnancy. period.
It's a shame about the vaccine of sin. We could really put a huge dent in cervical cancer, but those dirty girls get it from having sex. HPV is a pretty steep price for society to levy on young women for their puritanical notions. We are all the products of conception.
Right...so there is the argument that the same people who don't want the "sex vaccine" given to girls are the same people who don't want to make condoms available either - so is it just straight up, no holds barred, equal puritanical punishment for both sexes?...or is it levyed more heavily upon girls?
without a doubt girls carry the consequences unfairly. and if there was an commensurate consequence to the almighty penis for illicit sex, there would inevitably be an increase in self-restraint (as well as other self-behaviors too, i'm sure. [snark]).
if you launch a "walk for a cure" for abortion, i'll train for it (note the word "walk") ;-)
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It's a way bigger burden on the girls. The boy gets another notch in his bedpost, and the girl gets left holding the bag. She is the one with the social burden and the difficult choice of what to do about the fetus.
It's along the same lines that if the legislature's kids had to join the army, we'd never fight another war; but since premarital sex and military enlistment often stratify along socioeconomic lines, it's us(lawmakers) vs. them(poor).
Makes me want to move to sweeden
To put it simply: Women are expected to be ladies and cross their legs, whereas "boys will be boys."
Since it takes two to tango this thinking I've described produces the stats you have mentioned.
Instead of reflecting on this imbalance, society chooses to remain mute on the subject. Until we feel comfortable challenging both genders to keep their pants on, nothing will change.
Oh, as for why there is no walk for abortion prevention. . .
- Abortion itself isn't seen as a big problem affecting America. I know, I know . . . it's a HUGE debate, but one only as a matter of principle to most people.
- For breast cancer, we can envision a cure comeing through more scientific research. For abortion, we still can't agree on the "cure." Is it abstinence or contraception?
- Americans have a puritan background. They can talk 'til the cows come home about saving those unborn babies, but open discussions about people reproducing is a bit of a challenge.
Question: If pink is for Breast Cancer, what would it be for Abortion? . . . Blood red? Scarlet? Maybe a shade of white like onto amniotic fluid?
Great post! I also saw you on Christine's site after running a 5k, way to go!! This is such a great way to keep in touch! I've added you to my blogspot as well.
love & hugs!
Tawsha
OK, I'm going to be devil's advocate. . . Or should I say, male's advocate?
There is a preventitive measure against penile cancer or HIV (according to some). It's circumcision, and I would argue that's worse than a vaccination.
Monique, I guess I don't understand what you are saying? Circumcision is "worse than a vaccination"? If you are making the point that circumcision is preventing, or helping to prevent those two pathologies, then my point is made...things are done to prevent male pathology as a result of sex and women can't even get a vaccine to do the same. Isn't that an advocacy for my point?
Dana,
HIV goes both ways.
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